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Positive Action for Consent

Positive Action for consent or PAC is an extension of the safety check myself and WykD_Dave have in place for when we play, I am sure there are many other who do similar checks during play. I wanted to write a bit more on it, particularly in relation to consent during play. Having a [...]

By |2017-09-03T22:03:03+00:00September 3rd, 2017|Pain Processing, Performance, Risks, Rope, Rope Article, Rope Bottoming, Safety|1 Comment

Embracing Your Emotions: All of Your Emotions

It can be easy to embrace the good and reject the bad in all aspects of life, this is especially true with intimacy and sexual experiences. Although acknowledging the bad can lead to some powerful self awareness and recognition, it can be difficult to confront these emotions. Rope can be meditative at times, bring peace [...]

By |2016-11-01T21:02:55+00:00October 12th, 2014|Masochism, Pain Processing, Risks|0 Comments

I am not a masochist.

I am not a masochist. Pain has always been something I was very curious about, I would look at video and photography which showed how potent the emotions and feelings resulting from pain could be. I was drawn to the beautiful markings on skin. This darker painful side of BDSM is what [...]

By |2016-11-01T21:02:56+00:00July 27th, 2013|Masochism, Pain Processing, Rope|6 Comments

What Do I Get From Rope?

I have recently been asked to write a few paragraphs about why I love rope and what I get from it. I know I have written similar writing before but I think it is always good to reflect, so here is a new one on rope and what I get from it. Rope and [...]

By |2016-11-01T21:02:56+00:00February 8th, 2013|Life, Masochism, Pain Processing, Rope, Rope Article, Rope Bottoming|3 Comments

Interview: Redsabbath

Redsabbath is a rope bottom, performer and teaches rope bondage with Riccardo Wildties, who she discovered rope bondage with. Featuring in the majority of Riccardo Wildites performances, images and undertaking the LuXuria project together they are taking on the world with their intense rope bondage performances, including a recent trip to Russia. As a former [...]


I love wax, it might be minor for a lot of people and does not get a mention in BDSM often but I LOVE wax. I think I am definitely more of an I-love- stingy-pain kind of person, its a pain I enjoy and can process, from the cane to whip, I love the sting [...]

By |2016-11-01T21:02:57+00:00November 9th, 2012|Modeling, Pain Processing|0 Comments