A point I work hard to deliver in my rope bottoming classes is that the bondage experience will be different for everyone and that this is okay. So many of us make judgements of self worth based on how much we can achieve compared to other rope bottoms. There seems to be a growing expectation [...]
Unfortunately abuse is common but thankfully support for the different kinds of abuse is plentiful. Abuse can take various forms including but not limited to the following: physical abuse (pushing, hitting, choking, use of weapons for example), sexual abuse (coercion to have sex, rape, sexual assault, unwanted sexual activity, touching, groping or being forced to [...]
How do you identify with Kinbaku ? Kinbaku started as a curiosity, quickly turned into a passion and became my whole life. This question makes me realise it became my environment to a point that I somehow don’t think about that question anymore. It is difficult for me to answer… Kinbaku is everything to me [...]
We decided to make a couple of images which have been inspired by the new British government regulations on porn production. This censorship tries to stop UK producers making kinky stuff largely related to female sexual pleasure in video that has penetration by any object “associated with violence”, Urolagnia (known as “water sports”), Physical restraint [...]
The success of your rope experience as a bottom is often dependent on your frame of mind, how you are feeling and how open you are to the experience. This is easier said than done at times. There are techniques you can use to assist with this and you might already do them. Just like [...]
Connection is the new buzzword in the rope community at the moment, all the cool kids are using it. Sometimes taught as Ichinawa, a technique which is often taught with one rope to simplify things and break them down, but can be applied to all bondage. What is connective rope? Well, it's doing rope with [...]
It can be easy to embrace the good and reject the bad in all aspects of life, this is especially true with intimacy and sexual experiences. Although acknowledging the bad can lead to some powerful self awareness and recognition, it can be difficult to confront these emotions. Rope can be meditative at times, bring peace [...]
I have tried to write this blog several times and come up blank, nothing I write will ever come close to this experience and the wonderful time we had with such amazing people. Our sincere gratitude to our wonderful hosts and friends for treating us to an unforgettable week, one that has left us thirsty [...]
Santa Monica Beach It was our first time to visit the west coast of America, and hopefully not our last. We could not have made this trip happen if it was not for our wonderful hosts for providing this opportunity. Many thanks to our friends for making our stay so comfortable and welcoming. WykD [...]
References are a valuable tool for keeping you informed, aware and safe when considering playing with others. I cannot recommend getting references enough, although they are often overlooked and not used enough when considering tying with new people. I think that rope tops should vet bottoms and bottoms should vet tops before playing, shooting, and [...]
